I didn’t understand why my grandma gave me a small plastic sheep every birthday for years. I thought it was because her memory was getting worse, but I had no idea that each sheep had a secret message that wove a tapestry of love and support.

My grandma Clem was the perfect example of love that doesn’t depend on anything.

Even though she was getting older, she kept up the practice that started on my seventh birthday.

The sheep became a sign of how devoted she was.

After she died, my mom gave me one last sheep that had a secret message inside it.

Under each sheep was a piece of paper that said “I love you” followed by a number. A code that is easy to see.

My brother Sheldon helped me figure out the code, which led me to a bank account that my grandmother opened when I was born.

She put money in the account over the years and now has over $120,000.

A letter written by Grandma and put in a safety deposit box explained her smart plan to protect my future.

As I realised how much she loved me, tears came to my eyes.

I went to her grave, poured her tea, and told her how thankful I was.

I could feel her there with me at that very moment, reassuring me of her love.

This gift has taught me the power of love and support that don’t depend on me.

The secret gift my grandma gave me still moves me and reminds me to value family ties and love that doesn’t change over time.